Ndigbo find their home in a rich and fertile crescent created by the lower Niger River, predominantly within South-Eastern and a minority in South-Western Nigeria. Their population is presently estimated to approximate forty(40) to fifty five(55) million people around the globe. The Igbo homelands are probably one of the most densely populated regions in Africa.
In Igbo land, traditional marriages are conducted in stages to make sure proper research is conducted before the marriage takes place, In the first stage, the future groom finds the lady he wants to marry and tells his parents. The future groom accompanied by his father, mother, siblings and close family members .
All over the World, marriages are the most celebrated events in every family. In Igbo Nation, marriages are the most important test of a man’s integrity, wisdom, maturity and economic well being. Also, it is a barometer to gauge a female’s upbringing, humility and morality because Ndigbo do not believe that attractive physical beauty alone should be the single yardstick for a female to be married. According to them, beauty resides in the heart and popularly expressed as "nma di n'obi".
Ndigbo, vehemently believe that all attributes centered around sound moral character are the requisite ingredients for a worthwhile marriage. Consequently, a female who possesses attractive physical beauty laced with noticeable and tested moral probity over time becomes a hot marital magnet and asset for the entire community.
That explains why traditional Igbo marriages are serious business because the entire community is involved before any marriage takes place. When a man is ready to marry an Igbo woman, his immediate family takes part in search of a “near perfect fit” for the family. The would-be groom is prepared by his entire family to brace for overwhelming navigation of the marriage terrain spiked with ceremonial intrigues, stages and processes. These include thorough research and investigations on family background of both families. The intensity of the background research tends to be higher for highly educated beautiful ladies from far away Igbo cultures outside the man’s immediate locale.
Typically, there are four main stages and processes in traditional Igbo marriages:….
The Igbo nation takes the issue of leadership in her communities seriously as much as we experience in today’s modern democratic societies. This is so because of the belief that the welfare of her people is dependent to a very large extent on the quality of the men and women entrusted with leadership roles. Nobody is therefore allowed to take up a community leadership position except the person is found worthy in character and commitment to the goals of the community.
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In terms of looks, it is hard to distinguish an Igbo on the basis of looks alone. But one acceptance is that Ndigbo are generally considered nice looking. Many stretch it that their men stand out as handsome while their females are stunningly beautiful (Asamkpete nwaanyị ọma or omalicha ụmụ nwaanyị). These elegantly beautiful ladies are also highly educated and make up the cornerstone of most families by their high octane fields of academic accomplishments as Accountants, Administrators, Case workers, Educators, Doctors, Lawyers, Pharmacists, Physician Assistants, Nurses, Scientists, Entrepreneurs, Entertainers and Movie Stars. Ever heard about Nolly Wood?